A weekly ritual for couples

Four dates a month.
Not four “we should sometime”s.

We pick them, book the calendar, check in Sunday. You show up.

Start our ritual 2 min to set up
Alex & Sarah's
October, 2026
4Kept
1This weekend
3Month streak
Mon
Tue
Wed
Thu
Fri
Sat
Sun
1✓ kept
2
3Korean BBQ
4
5
6Poetry night
7
8Film club
9
10Pottery class
11
12
13Wine tasting
14
15Jazz night
16
17Hike + tacos
18
19
20
21Ramen crawl
22
23Improv show
24Jazz at the Blue Room
25
26
27
28Pop-up gallery
29
30Salsa class
31
BookedKeptSuggested
Syncs to Google Cal & iCal
300+ couples4,237 dates kept this yearAvg. streak 5 weeks
Before · after

From “we should”
to you did.

Last Saturday, 9:47 PM
“So, what do you want to do?”
r/dateideasOPENED TUE
@brunch_spots saved14×
Notes: "that wine bar?"MAR '25
Saturday · nothing on the calendar
This Friday, 8:00 PM
You're at the jazz bar.
Jazz at The Blue Room
Both of you tapped “Let's do this”
✓
Friday · 8:00 PM
Added to Google Calendar
Synced
Couples who stopped saying “we should”

Rituals, not resolutions.

31
real dates last year
Before DateRitual, maybe two a year. Last year we did thirty-one.
Priya & Marcus · Brooklyn · 8 years
0
"what do you want to do"s
We just open Thursday's email.
Sam & Jordan · Austin
14wk
current streak
Moved to Lisbon, knew no bars. Now it's a thing we do.
Alex & Maria · Lisbon

Pick one.
Put it on the calendar.
Go.

Start our ritual First ideas this Thursday